Posted on Friday 20 June 2014
This came in the mail yesterday so I guess that means it’s for real now.
In case you haven’t already figured it out, the lady friend and I jetted off to Hawaii a few weeks ago and got ourselves hitched. It was on a beach with just the two of us in attendance, which was a little bit sad in it’s own way but perfectly encapsulated our relationship. If I had to do it all over again, this is exactly how I would do it. Plus, I would like to take this moment to pat myself on the back for the brilliant “Hawaii” idea because now we have a built-in excuse to go back there all the time. I mean, come on:
I had this huge long post that I started drafting to at least jot down some memories even if no one reads them including a story of how I may have inadvertently made a lady super racist towards Chinese people. There were also some thoughts about working through family, secrets, and disappointment but all of it feels like old news and no longer relevant. In reality, we’ve only been married for exactly three weeks.
I used to think that the infrequency of posts I put up these days was due to the deadly trifecta of writer’s block, loss of interest and the fact that no one blogs anymore. What I think is actually happening though is that I am no longer a brooder. I don’t spend days and weeks processing my emotions or over-thinking the details. Things happen. The end.
So I guess that’s the whole story then. We went to Maui. We got married. It was wonderful. The end. Hooray!